I tried the one-in-one-out method to keep my space clutter-free and it changed my relationship with shopping for good

Over the years, I've delved deeply into the worlds of organizing, decluttering and minimalism, trialing all sorts of different methods to keep everything tidy both for my self-interest, and as a journalist in the homes space.

One pattern I have noticed it the busier I get, the more easily clutter accumulates in my home. It makes sense, as I don't have as much time to monitor what's going in and out of my home, leading to a sense of clutter overwhelm.

That's why my interest was piqued when I read about one-in-one-out rule to make a person think twice before making new purchases. It sounded simple and achievable in my busy lifestyle, and easy to maintain in the longer term. It worked brilliantly and has turned my relationship with shopping on its head.

What is the 'one-in-one-out' method?

The one-in-one-out decluttering rule is very simple: every time you purchase something new to bring into your home, you need to get rid of something you already own to make space for it. This item can be from the same category, for instance if you buy a new sweater, you let go of an old sweater, but it doesn't have to be.

This constant mindfulness of state of in-and-out provides a definite way to keep the amount of items in your home at a stable level instead of quietly creeping up and leading to either overwhelm, or clutter blindness. The act of having to remove something every time a new purchase is made will condition your brain to stop and think before shopping, too.

Punteha van Terheyden, head of Solved at Homes & Gardens explains, 'It's a very mindful process because you have to mentally scan your existing belongings at the point of sale, be it online or in store, and think on what you'll get rid of. That can also stop you in your tracks when you realize you already have three cream winter jackets and don't need another one.'

To test it out, I grabbed an empty box to put my 'out' items in, to be able to track at the end of a month-long test how much I decluttered without too much effort. Then I resumed my life under the rules of this challenge.

How the challenge went for me overall

Undertaking this challenge was simple and didn't take a lot of time out of my day. I noticed within the first week how easy it was to buy something and bring it home without even thinking twice, but as the challenge began, I started to question whether I truly needed something while in a store.

I fell into a good habit of decluttering as you go, unpacking my shopping and counting the new items I had obtained before then going around my home and finding that many items to let go of before putting the new ones away. This really worked for me and helped me to stay on top of the challenge.

It was interesting to note I began mulling over the differences between needing, wanting and liking something when this challenge began and started to shift how I was spending money in stores and online and what I was donating or selling.

What I liked about the one-in-one-out method

I liked how this challenge was easy to keep up with once you got going. I came home one day with two cute Halloween-themed bracelets, not remembering immediately that they counted as new items until the next day. But as the days passed, the 'out' part of the challenge became second nature, regardless of the source of the new item: a book I bought, a gift from a friend or a bargain mug from a clearance section.

I also liked how the challenge seemed grounded in something philosophical and transient, akin to the non-attachment theory which encourages a person to think on why they are attached to what they own. It fostered a new philosophy in me that tracked with a 'this new item has come into your life to serve you, so remove something that doesn't so it can go on to serve someone else' mentality.

Trying the one-in-one-out rule wasn't arduous, and began blending quickly into the background of my life, existing alongside me in a non-pressurizing way. I liked that because it meant the rule didn't feel overwhelmed: a silent accountability partner ensuring I didn't clutter up my life with things that would weigh me down.

What I disliked about the one-in-one-out method

I quickly ran into some problems with the one-in-one-out method and realized how important it is for every individual to set boundaries in order for the method to work.

For instance, I had been needing to purchase a new ergonomic chair for a while now. I've been using a chair from the dining room downstairs while waiting to find a good chair, so when I brought my new chair home I didn't know what to do. The old chair wasn't going 'out', it was going back downstairs. So did I need to get rid of something I already owned if the item I purchased was a 'need' and not a 'want', and instead a direct replacement?

And how about if you're purchasing items that will stay in your home for a duration of time but not forever, such as greetings cards for friends or a bunch of flowers? They take up space in your home but only temporarily.

After encountering these issues I decided to keep going forward with the following additions to my one-in-one-out challenge:

• If the item I'm adding to my home is a 'need' then I don't have to take something else 'out'.
• If the item I purchase isn't for myself, such as a gift I'm keeping hold of for a friend later in the year, then I don't have to let something else go.
• I am not going to restrict myself by sticking to categories, for instance I buy a lovely cardigan on sale to help me stay warm in winter, I don't have to donate another cardigan. Instead, I pick something else around my home.

Going forward with a less strict sense of the challenge made me feel much better, so before undertaking this for yourself, I would definitely take the time to think into the terms that suit you and your lifestyle or simply, when you begin, feel free to adapt.

Just make sure that the challenge's main principle of something in, something out, still stands, otherwise you could come up with lots of caveats that lead you to never removing anything or using this as the decluttering tip intended.

Overall verdict and tips

It's a great method to keep clutter in someone's home at a stable level and to encourage people not to unnecessarily buy items they don't really need (which could in turn inspire decluttering), but if you're looking to make space in your home this won't do the trick.

It is one that's worth a go if you notice signs you are losing control of clutter in your home.

Just be mindful that if you don't remove the same category of item that you've just purchased a new item of, you could increase the volume of stuff in your home. For instance, if you buy a throw but remove a bracelet, it's technically doing the challenge but may not have as much impact.

I'd rate this a 2/10 as a method to declutter the home, but a 9/10 as a way to live. I believe everyone could benefit from adopting the principle of something in, something out within reason as it keeps possessions under control and cultivates mindfulness and under-consumption about what one owns.

Following the one-in-one-out method after you've already decluttered your home would work best in combination, as the method would then keep your space clutter-free for the future.

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