Which bedding do luxury hotels use? Here's how to get the hotel look at home

As H&G's resident Sleep Editor, I'm often asked: 'which bedding do luxury hotels use?' The questions continue: how do they get their sheets so soft? How do they plump their pillows just so? How do they tuck their blankets so tight?

If you're looking to learn how to bring home that five-star feeling, then you've come to the right place. I asked an expert panel of hoteliers to share their secrets and show us how to create a hotel-worthy bedroom at home.

You'll need the best bed sheets for a crisp, cool finish, the best duvet insert for maximal loft, and the best pillow to rest your head, plus a few finishing touches to tie it all together. Good news: you can get the luxury look and feel for less when you shop with specialist sleep stores, rather than hotel boutiques.

Which bedding do luxury hotels use? I ask my expert panel

Along the way, I'll call out common bedding mistakes and help you identify the best bedding for your sleep style. Make it to the end of this article, and you'll learn how to create a sleep retreat at home to rival any hotel.

Signature sheets

I don't know about you, but the first thing I notice about a hotel bed is the sheets. Back home, I tend to sleep with just a fitted sheet and a comforter thrown on top, so it feels like a real treat to slip between silky sheets. I asked Alex Ekbatani, CEO of ette hotels, what makes the best hotel bed sheets.

According to Alex, it's all in the details. That's why he partners with Frette, luxury linen makers since 1860, to learn how to make a bed the right way. He believes that 'the meticulous selection of cotton sateen linens, adorned with an elegant saddle white rim of embroidery and featuring the distinctive ette logo on the pillowcase, speaks to our commitment to excellence'.

When you get into a hotel bed, and you feel the silkiness of the sheets, that's sateen: a tight weave with an attractive sheen that's soft against your skin, but tends to wrinkle easily. You might find that a percale weave proves more manageable. Simply knit, with a one-thread-over, one-thread-under structure, percale is strong enough to withstand the wear and tear of regular washes, with optimal airflow for hot sleepers.

Quality comforters

I used to struggle to style a comforter. Where sheets look neat and tidy, a comforter can bunch up on the bed, creating lumps, bumps, and cold patches that have no place in a home or a hotel.

When I asked Christopher Perone, General Manager at NoMad London, for his styling advice, I thought he'd tell me how to do hospital corners. Instead, he encouraged me to let it all hang out. 'At NoMad, we maintain a more residential approach for making our beds,' he says. That means 'not tucking in the duvet all the way around', but letting it fall to the floor for a dramatic drape. Christopher thinks 'this helps to achieve a more relaxed visual'.

By their very nature, hotel beds tend to feel a little impersonal. They're designed to suit every sort of sleeper, whether they prefer the feel of fluffy down to that of a down alternative. When you're curating your own sleep sanctuary, you get to tailor it to meet your needs.

If you're a hot sleeper, I suggest you invest in the best cooling comforter to see you through the night sweats and the hot flashes. Cold sleepers should snuggle up under the best warm comforter, while eco-conscious shoppers could consider organic duvet inserts.

Plush pillows

As a stomach sleeper, I appreciate a pillow that's flat, yet firm, to save my neck from straining. In my experience, hotel pillows are plush, yet insufficiently supportive.

I asked Alex how he handles pillows at ette hotels. He advocates for 'a balanced blend of soft and firm pillows, tailored to meet the unique preferences of each client', regardless of their sleep position. It sounds like the ideal solution.

Even if you prefer a plush pillow, Alex argues that 'the firm pillows serve as an ideal canvas to showcase the artful display of decorative shams and other design embellishments'.

It's all about the accents

A hotel-worthy bed is incomplete without one, two, or five of the best throw pillows. Adding a throw pillow is an easy and affordable way to spice up your plain white sheets and add some depth and dimension to your bedspread.

Personally, I like to spread a cozy throw over the end of my bed to keep the comforter in place and add some touchable texture. A lightweight blanket makes a great alternative in the summer for hot sleepers who like a layer.

If you've got a little cash to spare, and you're keen to upgrade the look and feel of your bedroom, then you could even swing for one of the best bed frames. Hotel bed frames tend to feature plush upholstery in neutral shades to complement any color palette.

Alex is a big believer in accent pieces. 'Not only do these vibrant additions serve as an expression of personal style, but they offer the freedom to switch seasonally, effortlessly transforming the mood and ambiance of the bedroom.'

Ever wondered 'what mattresses do hotels use?' I can tell you. I've scoured the sites of the world's best hotels, from the Marriott to the Mandarin Oriental, to work out which mattresses they use and what it would cost you to bring one home.